Below is the subject DM provided to a Young Lady on twitter who has been Suffering Terribly for a few years now…  I have been trying to HELP this Young Lady since the beginning of 9/21 at the time prior to her initiating her 4 months of residential treatment/care working the supposed “Gold Standard” as designated by the Mental Health Community, i.e. the ERP Process… If you look at matters now for her, she really is worse off Now than ever before as her Anxiety/OCD condition has resulted in Serious Depressive Issues as well which is the typical progression in ones Mental Health when one does not take care of their Anxiety/OCD Issues Properly… That was so readily predictable!! As the DM addresses I provided a quick Analysis of the ERP Process she went thru letting her (& all) Know how limited it really is vs. the Self-Personalized CBT Mental/Emotional Repetitive Training Process I LEARNED ( included in a provided Blog Post https://riseandshineanxietydepression.net/2021/10/27/ ) & Wrote of along with Additional Needs & Elements provided which forms a Total/Complete Process which solves our Anxiety/Depression Issues which forms the umbrella of Pain we all Feel & Deal with for Most MH Issues we are tagged with… What has been going on here for her, goes to show ya what really is Trending as far a Mental Health & Typical Treatment the MH Professionals are guiding us to in this day & age……For whose benefit we need to ask??!!! It’s Really SAD!!!  For their $ desires or for the Good of the Patient Involved we wonder?…… “The 4th Edition–The Final Cut” Book written addresses what is going on in Mental Health considering my Numerous years of MH Related Experiences including having gone thru 4Xs in psych wards, out-patient care, & private sector pros, all I have witnessed, & my Objective view of matters which I summed up as  “NUMBING” which it Really Is!… I wrote a Blog Post encapsulating that part of section 1. in the Book: That Post & Link is https://riseandshineanxietydepression.net/2019/09/05 … The bulleted items below briefly address the Sad Case of affairs which have resulted in a cluster…. whatever you want to call it & has led us to where we are now, with MH in this World, generally speaking, just getting Worse with No Change in sight…   

• A Key reason “stems from the only Biblical statement which I address in section 4: … i.e. “We can’t have two Masters, God and money… we are going to Love one and hate the other” … so which way is Society, or us humans taking us (as addressed in section 4.4)?  Yeah, the Very Wrong Way!” YEP GREED as we have Generally selected the Wrong Master in our Lives, $s over GOD!  So between the $s being made by the MH Pros & the Pharmaceuticals, the Approach of pointing to the Meds as the Predominant Approach to deal with MH Approaches for Therapy Will Never Change!

  • Of course this caters to the state of the Extent & Rates of SUFFERERS or those who Struggle who roll thru the Psych Wards/MH Hospitals these days, more now than ever before, as I did 4Xs thru as Sufferers are Desperately looking for Necessary/Immediate Treatment!   Bottom Line, the only way the Pros can do a Quick turnaround of Patients is to bottom line, Medicate them, 100%! Understandable, looking for quick fixes but those quick fixes are NOT PERMANENT Means of Properly Dealing with our Issues which is Never brought up to the attention of SUFFERERS & where to seek such Permanent/Natural Solutions from in the psych wards/MH Hospitals I was resident in, 4Xs thru again, leaving us disillusioned about the Meds being the only way out,  like a hampster in a cage on a spinning wheel, running like hell & getting nowhere with ZERO Proper Direction… Only the Meds Rout….RRRRRRR !!!… Instead of Numbing the Ways we think, operate, & react to things we NEED TO LEARN how to CHANGE the ways we Think, Operate, & React to things, Underreacting to Everything in Effect which is what it Takes to Amend our Issues Permanently! That’s what I Wrote of…

  • What stems from this, consistent with selection of the Wrong Master, is how the Education System was geared… Not Very Good at all as I’ve witnessed! Since the MH Pros Preach how they are Taught they cannot be held accountable for Problems/Complications dealing with those who SUFFER or Struggle regardless of the end result of their Diagnosis & Treatment Prescribed!  There is no Secret about those running the show of the MH Professionals as they have to Know what is going on REALLY!  With the $s being made the MH Profession Education System in schools/colleges will never CHANGE! 

  • Additionally, how our Society & MH Pros Operate consistent with above, MH Pros are not Allowed to bring up One’s FAITH & Foundation as far of It’s Importance in our Mental Health… WOW !!??… To Think that is never brought up by the Psychologists/Psychiatrists/Therapists to Patients who are SUFFERING??!!, That Is SO WRONG as Our Faith/Our Foundation involves, as I state in the Book “at Least 50% of the Game of Life” for our Well-Being & Mental Health which is So Clear!!!

• Also Key: As for Problems in being human, us humans do not like to work on ourselves!!!!!  This is a Big Big Problem as most of us just try to figure matters out on our own. Besides there is so much convoluted info out there on MH that  no one knows what to believe… People are SO CONFUSED!! As Most of us humans have little if any Experience concerning MH Issues & Matters when they initially reach out to find Mental Health Help in case of Need, & just like if we have a broken arm we go to the Drs./Pros we do the same when feeling the effects of MH Issues going on as we go down the path of the MH Professionals Understandably up front, & often if Desperate, we end up in the psych wards as I have to no avail really as my Book explains. In the case of the Young Lady addressed, she still is All About her Desire to Continue to Rely on the MH Pros Interestingly after All she has gone thru?! Yep definitely some brainwashing that goes on between the MH Pros & the general populace until we Really Experience Matters ourselves & then Realize, Definitely It Is Time To Change Course! But in What Way???!!!… That is Completely what I Wrote of!    

Here is the DM as provided to the Young Lady:

Hi Young Lady, Sorry about the length of this, but For Very Good Reason!   In light of a tweet/comment provided to your tweet on top of your site showing the OCD Debilitating poster on 2/14/22, I Urge you to read this for your benefit needless to say. Please Read it Twice… Yeah, I think you have been working thru that ERP Process for well over 2 months, & well past 6 weeks by now from what I understand as of 2/25/22.  Unfortunately, I haven’t heard Significant signs of Improvement going on which I KNOW you would have shared on twitter if such was the case by now per the ERP Process! Other than showing a few pictures of yourself, being in a picture with a Friend, & your Mom, which is at least some level of Improvement, & Thanks God for that!.. I Pray for you Every Day in your endeavors to get better! But Honestly, compared to Book’s Process, if you Tried, ERP is not doing you Justice! Per Book’s Process, 4 weeks from start working the Repetitive Training/Reprogramming Process in section 5 of Book, we are then ready to get out there in public to work our Skills, after going thru the 1st Step Conditioning process, calming down our minds, & associated Tools/Actions, then getting to next Step Skills we learn upfront to deal with Panic issues (or compulsions in your case, prior to getting to the next section in 5), & then per the last step in section 5, Learning/Working Tools/Skills dealing with Conversions in thoughts from being negative/unreal, to Positives (which puts a slam dunk on all Panic issues). It’s not really scary at that time getting out in public & working New Skills/Tools, but instead is Challenging & Exciting when do , since,  you’d be more Ready than ever before really out in public with the knowledge you’d have in place vs. in prior unprepared Suffering times, & besides, knowing you’re taking Great Strides to achieve your Ultimate Goal to be Truly Free in Life where this is leading you to :)! Yeah, you would have read thru the Book well before this time & would Realize this  Positivity Process Does Make Total & Clear/Compete Sense….Thereafter, within 6 weeks of Working process, about 2 weeks into sect. 6, we begin to have Tremendous Positive Impacts starting to permeate thru us which is nothing short of Mind Blowing, Seriously!!!… e.g. the 3/3/20 Reviewer (on Amazon) who Suffered with “Anxiety, Depression, OCD, & PTSD his whole Life”, wrote his Review “Life Changing” just at the 5 week mark :)! & Now  he is doing like I am…. Solid as he can be :)! As for me, being That Worse Caser for too many years, within 6 weeks This Happened (minus the Help from a Cheerleader as I am now) !… A Couple others I witnessed, as shared in Book, saw Amazing Results: within 2 ½ months, not knowing when they truly started into sections 5 & 6 & doing the Work?…. &  also at the 5 week mark upon just getting the Book, for a young 17-18 yr old who was in panic when met him! Blog Post I wrote addressing the Tremendous Positive Impacts seen with Book in hand for All those I came across including those who provided Reviews & those who were working Process, minus Reviews…& for Son & I working the Program purchased Clarifying the Power of the Book’s Total Process by comparisons; this Blog post provided which also shared up front on All Book sites for the Book is https://riseandshineanxietydepression.net/2020/03/10.   Per this comparison, the Book Process Appears to be equally as Strong vs. doing the Program I Learned from & Likely Stronger with additions made beyond what Learned… Then with section 4 matters addressed, it does Trump the Programs Process which does not include the Powers in FAITH, & Merging the Positivity Tools/Skills with Prayer etc. Go to the very 1st DM I provided you, & that DM includes that Blog Post & Link (now shown above)… Recently, on 10/27/21 I did a quick analysis which resulted in my reluctance of the ERP Process’s Effectiveness you decided to do vs. working the Optimum CBT Process I Learned & wrote of… Definitely Prompted by you & my Concerns of you being So Gung Ho & all, being commited to that ERP without even giving the Approach I wrote a thought or a Try…  Blog post written addressing this evaluation of the differences between CBT Processes (the Positivity Process) I LEARNED, vs. other CBTs including ERP looked into, made it Clear the CBT I Learned is Optimum by comparison! Just being Honest!! Hence, the effectiveness of what it sounds like you are sensing/feeling, per the ERP Process which seems Very Limited & Lacking by comparison, vs. what the Book’s Process Effectiveness has Proven to be …”Life Changing” & “Life Savings” when a Sufferer Just TRIES! That CBT Evaluation Blog Post link is:_ riseandshineanxietydepression.net/2021/10/27….   Please give it a Read!… As for the $s spent one vs. other, considering $s spent & Effectiveness considerations, not even worth thinking of cause it would be alarming!… Even if I did not offer you a freebie ride here which I am offering, you’d have to pay max $s= E-Book in e.g. pdf format ($4.99), or Paperback ($19.99 max), + the Intended & Highly Recommended Relaxation Media which originally was a freebie YouTube link, but no more as owner of Media now (not the Lady X-Sufferer who generated the routine & who I Learned from) is charging $20ish (outside my Control needless to say)… Sooo $25 ish to $40 ish spent total, vs. residential ERP where you are going on month 3??!!! Can’t even imagine what they are charging!?… I personally spent with Insurance kicking in some $20K for MH, per probably 20 days in Residential care, & then out-patient care, & some private sector “Pros” back like 12 to 22 years ago as a snap-shot of $s back then.… & as stated I Learned Nothing of what it Takes Naturally, which provides Permanent Results which I was So Lucky to have come across, LEARNED & EXPERIENCED to Understand what it Definitely Takes in Life, For Life.  Yeah, I provided a ton of info above in DMs, excluding some details about this evaluation post… Although, I did put this information & link, in various tweets to All starting 10/27/21 time frame as I was hoping you would read into it prior to doing your ERP Excursion which you were already committed to go thru. Yeah, I do Understand, being inexperienced with MH Issues & MH Reality, like most, you automatically gravitated to the PHDs & Drs. being a Sufferer with MH Issues & just like we do for other things when feeling Issues or Pains, we go see the Drs.… You’d think they should Know Best, Right? Sorry & Unfortunately, but So Wrong in the MH world as I’ve Fully Experienced. I generated a Blog post capturing words which exist in the Final Cut of the Book written, entitled NUMBING! Go to DM, my message generated Oct,15/21 & that includes that post if desire to read some…  At least you were Smarter than myself & picked maybe a more viable CBT type approach which is a heck of a lot better approach than what I saw in my escapades with a gauntlet of MH pros & the meds… Hey, some times we have to go thru more disappointments until we find out what is Best to deal with our Issues… So, Yeah, DA me (you Guessed it :)) took 25 yrs to finally Realize what I needed to do to Begin my Recovery. Bottom line is, whatever is going on with you now, I would Love to talk to you about matters or if desired have your Mom call me if you desire at first… Sure I’d like to talk to her as well about… I don’t think you are at all near  where you were hoping for to clear that OCD slate of Pain, & where I Know you should be & CAN BE (& DO) if You Just TRY!… I would Love to talk to Anyone on your behalf, but really most Importantly, to yourself to Help You #1! … By the way, I am currently Cheerleading to Motivate one of your followers… i.e. ( omitted for confidentiality reasons per this Blog post along with some details in doing cheerleading via phone contacts, emails, DMs)... She gave me permission to have you contact her & get a bead on many a communications we’ve had since 11/21… many a DMs, e-mails (providing her tid-bits) & phone calls I have had with her, for you to understand, e.g….how easy I am to talk to… how Helpful I have been for her in my strides to Motivate & Cheerlead I call it since Book after writing that over 7yrs, 4mos Is COMPLETE!!!, & to see if she thinks I am Trust worthy, which is a forgone conclusion my Friend, considering section 4 being about allow FAITH to Grow with age with GOD & Jesus being Christian :)… She already Knows How Much Sense the Total Process Makes as it does not take too long to understand that, as read into the Book………. As for you, I Know you would be Diligent about doing this #1 in Life so you can have a Life… A Beautiful Life!!!! & being Truly Free… Peace of mind when you have it all going within as it amounts to!!!… Since you have gone thru the wickets of doing what you are doing t/residential ERP, you would welcome doing the Book’s Process in your own home… My phone # again is 714-371-5435, e-mail RonnyLG123@gmail.com… My #1 Desire is again  to HELP Someone, & You, 100%… Send me an e or DM me your e that way so I can get you all the Freebie Mat’l (Book & Relaxation mP4) you need to do this… Don’t think Anything could be  BETTER as a TRUE Self-Helper… Not Possible, Not a Chance… So may I ask you WHY NOT & WHY NOT NOW?? Or when you get back home… Lets Do This!!!!  I KNOW THIS IS THE MOST IMPORTANT EDUCATION IN A LIFETIME FOR MOST PEOPLE ACTUALLY, & FOR YOU WELL BEYOND THAT… With this Book in one hand & the BIBLE in the Other Needless to Say FREE yourself!!! Enough Said!!!  I Know you are Very Smart… Please Take This in more than just a Consideration…. Lets Do This!!!

God Bless you my Friend!

Ron