25 yrs Worse Case Anxiety/OCD, Depression (Deep Depression)... Tried to end my life twice... 4Xs in those psych wards while dealing with a slew of Mental Health Professionals within or during out-patient care thereafter or private sector Pros along the way... Learned NOTHING about NATURAL Way out of my Issues... LEARNED from X-Sufferer as I am now :), about the only psychology Need to Know... How Best to Change negativity to Positivity via Repetitive Training/CBT Process which is Tremendous & which Saved my Life... Funneled whole thing into my Book along with Key Additions f/Depression & other things which could HELP... Then Realized over time NEED our Strong Foundation, Our FAITH, & Connection with GOD (& Jesus being Chrisitian) which is the Basis of our Positivity when get that RIGHT & which Solidified Everything within... NOW Cannot Feasibly get any Stronger Being human. Of course Eating Well/Exercise also covered... Thus Spiritual, Mental/Emotional, & Physical involves All Aspects of our Well-Being & Mental Health we can do for ourselves...
This is a common message I provide for those Suffering or for those who Struggle with negativity at times as lots of us do… This has Everything… & I Mean Everything we Need to know for our Mental Health, the Proper the Natural Way which is really the Only way & Permanent Way for Anxiety/Depression or for Most Mental Health Issues… It boils down to our Minds/Emotions, Bodies, & SPIRIT (Our Temple which we Need to Take Care Of )! Sums up to Mental Health TRUTH & the Godly TRUTH of the matter... Gone thru Way Too Much Not To Know This… Well after actually, 12 yrs, 10 mos of writing/editing/ & all the EXPERIENCES in-between Xs 5 per the latest “5th/Final Touch Edition” of the Main Book… although had math error in the Latest Edition which ID’d 10 yrs, 4 mos (Ooopppsss Sorry…) besides all the EXPERIENCES prior to when had those 25 yrs, Worse Caser times with Anxiety/(Deep) Depression, OCD, having attemped suicide twice & (4) times in the psych wards this Book is now Beyond SOLID, COMPLETE… & YES the MOST INFLUENTIAL (Definitely for myself & Most Likely for others as well…) especially considering a rather recent Depressive Pitfall for 5 months I went thru, and a subsequent Spiritual AWAKENING where uncovered a subtle haunting which I was carrying with me through my whole life till 10/1/24 when Blew out of the Depression, completely FREEING myself from Spiritual perfectionism I was struggling with, being born & raised Catholic…
1) Attached (if Email Me … RonnyLG123@gmail.com...includes the main Book, “Rise and Shine Anxiety & Depression & Life Management Tools” ( .pdf file), in the “5th/Final Touch Edition”, and the Important Relaxation/Meditation Routine (.mp4 digital format/file). Note, the Relaxation media is the first thing we do for Conditioning when working the Positivity Process from the get go in sections 5 & 6 as the Instruction set identifies.
— In the Book Highly Suggest to read the “Preface/Summary” up front which provides, as stated, a Good Summary of what is included & why written as I have…
2) Not knowing if you are a Parent or not, thought I would attach that other Book I wrote as well… “Rise and Shine Parents Self-Help Guide for the Youngins”… Beautiful Little Informative Book for Parents in raising the Youngins…
— An FYI for you when combing thru or Reading the “Rise and Shine Parents Self-Help Guide for the Youngins”… As stated this Book Supplements the Latest Main Book written, & as identified on the cover, the Latest at the time being the the “4th Edition/ “The Final Cut”” …. But now the Latest is the “5th/Final Touch Edition” which only invalidates the following paragraph in this Parents Self-Help Guide for the Youngins (Only) : I.E.: Section 1.2, Item 1), 2nd Paragraph…. But If you read section 4.1 (Spirituality) in the Main Book per the “5th/Final Touch Edition” provided that Corrects this matter!
3) Something I Learned after publishing the 5th/Final Touch Edition of the Book, there is a Bible App. I came across at the Church I go to now (as section 4.1 brings up), where Highly Suggest to download a freebie download of “Through The Word” for Understanding the Bible Appropriately for Faith Formation & Growth…For each chapter in the Bible, NT & OT, narrator does a great interpretation of what is in the chapter’s Word, then the Word following that… Great way to LEARN with no ?s nor confusion.
Please Understand, Faith Formation/Growth & Our Connection with God & Jesus is as I say in the Book, At Least Half the Game in Life if consider Life a game…
4) Considering the Power of FAITH, the Most INSPIRATIONAL Individual I ever saw/heard, over 69 yrs of my life, was this Gentleman whose website is “ThatArmlessGuy.com”…. His AMAZING Testimonial I saw at Calvary Chapel, Refuge, in Huntington Beach on 7/6/25… https://youtube.com/watch?v=AIJ4R8EpCBQ … And I Certainly could relate to His story, as many could as well, considering Mental Health Issues for yrs I dealt with , vs. his Armless body he was born with/as. As we can Turn matters/Issues around in our Lives when appropriately bring God & Jesus into our Lives!
Contact me for any questions etc, via E-mail or often it is best to talk things thru if/as desired. I also provide freebie Coaching or Cheerleading I call it if desired. Though, the Book is Complete, if anything, those in the past I dealt with did like to hear a Motivating Voice of Encouragement while initially Working the Positivity Tools/Skills Process. My Phone # is 714-371-5435
“Something to mention… I am Christian. & I personally will never sway or swerve from my Faith, but I do not discriminate against any Faith or Religion… 1st paragraph in section 4.1, Spirituality, addresses this which may have been the Most Difficult paragraph to write considering… This paragraph (only) is likewise shown in Blog Post: https//rise and shine anxiety depression.net/2020/02/14.”
ABOVE is that (1) paragraph which is NO LONGER VALID, besides of course, the noted Post… Realize the Latest/Updated Main/Ref Book (“5th/Final Touch Edition”), per section 4.1 (Spirituality) was SIGNIFICANTLY Modified, addressing the GODLY TRUTH of the matter Regarding being Christian & what the TRUE Meaning of THAT IS, vs. thru 4 Editions, attempting to be Kinder & Gentler with the general populace BUT NOT Speaking the TRUTH in this Main/Ref Book which was UNACCEPTABLE Considering the BOOKS WRITTEN are ALL ABOUT INTEGRITY!!!!!!!!
Another way of putting it is, when we are born into this world just like me & lots of negative thinking individuals, we become Insecure & Fragile dealing with our Immediate Environment… With OURSELVES #1, People, jobs, conflicts dealing with Ourselves & the populace. But when we put in this Work Changing us, we clear our minds eliminating all that negative Self-Defeating Self-Talk we Bury ourselves with into the pits of Anxiety & Depression where we feel we can’t get out of… BUT WE CAN!, when again we Diligently Work this Unmatched Self-Personalized Positivity Process which Changes all this, allowing us to CONNECT with Everything that much Better & Stronger!… Feeling Confident & Comfortable within Ourselves for likely the first time Ever LIKELY, & Most Importantly CONNECTING with GOD & JESUS! This SOLIDIFIES Everything for our Well-Being/Mental Health… This is why I refer to the Positivity Tools/Skills Process in the Main Book as providing an Enhancement of Faith & a Stepping Stone to Greater FAITH!…Nothing Better my Friends when we put This all together!!!!!
From what seen over 10yrs on twitter/X (or any SM media), Easy to say JESUS, w/Attitude!…Nowhere/Anywhere I’ve seen besides This, any other TRUE TOTAL MH Process which covers EVERYONE Really now written over 12 yrs, 10 mos in Main Book thru 5 Editions! Some partials & maybe more in-depth info about why we get or are messed up as us humans can get… But, it goes without saying that God, our Creator would KNOWS BEST!!! By the way, Kudos to Elon who Changed Things it seems for a bit (about last 1/2 yr) where my posts were shown strongly on the #X/Target sites addressed in posts; prior to that it seems social media would just flush my posts to my profile & No one would ever see them… Now, with X change or?, only about 20% show new/old posts for now; KUDOS to those cause YOU GET IT (for now?)! Otherwise, SM clearly makes it seem we are LOST with MH regarding a TOTAL MH Process of What It Takes with INTEGRITY! But we’re Not… Put it this way, in that parable form, “This is The Boat, The Truck, The Helicopter to HELP You All”… No TRUE Refutes ever seen, nor responded to…As Book written evolved & I did too, it clearly aligned Stronger & Stronger with what The Bible/God says, along with as Needed Details, for us to shed our Issues, to have GOOD Lives, & allowing us to Optimize as humans…written in Total TRUTH!
God Bless to All!, & KUDOS to those who Continue to Show!!!! But for Many, time to Wake Up!
Short Summary for those who don’t want to Read into much :):
When we provide self-defeating negative self-talk to ourselves on a daily, hourly, even secondly basis that Drives us into a deep Pit of Anxiety/Depression over time! We Then Need Steps to initially make us Feel Comfortable in this world & in our immediate surroundings!… I.E. The Positivity Process which Changes the way we Think, Operate,& React to things, Under-reacting to Everything!!! …When we Work this Process changing negatives to Positives in thoughts/mindset, involving individual neg. thoughts & sources of our negativity, we rid ourselves of that negative rubble in our minds which previously consumed us, Clearing our minds, & then we’re able to CONNECT with Everything on this planet so much better & THEN Most Importantly, GOD/JESUS , which is the Makings for our Strong Foundation!… =s Basis of our Positivity when we get that RIGHT or the basis of our negativity when we get that wrong or refuse to Connect!!!
And now for the Subject Related Text in the Book:
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As Book Addresses in Section 1 of Book (INTRODUCTION/RATIONALE):
Continuing to reflect further on the importance of the interdependency of the included Positivity Tools & Skills Process, and section 4 material, Our Belief System/Spirituality (& Mindfulness) provides what I believe is Essential for Us to develop a Solid Foundation/Core with Good/Solid Standards, Values, & Integrity, helping us become Good/Solid & Positive People through Life. Without a Strong Foundation/Core, then I don’t believe it would be possible to appropriately build-up Our Positive Selves, and be Internally Strong People in the long run (i.e. with a weakened Foundation/Core). Besides, Our Faith/Our Foundation provides the basis of Our Positivity…You know how it is when we do the Right Things in Life … Well, that makes us feel Good and Positive, and if we Don’t (do the Right Things), we Don’t (feel Good nor Positive)!
The Positivity Tools & Skills Process essentially teaches us the importance of being and Living through Life with Love, Patience, Humility, Forgiveness, Gratitude, Joy, and Honesty to Best Deal with our negativity, and hence, our Anxieties, and Depression. And there are probably other Positive characteristics that are not coming to mind now while writing this. Now, these are the same character qualities that are emphasized within the Bible on how we should operate as People/ Christians in Life. I am not going to address any specific and related Biblical verses that apply to these characteristic qualities, but if interested, go on-line and do a google search on “Bible verses on…”, these qualities mentioned (Honesty, Love, Patience, Humility, Forgiveness, Gratitude, Joy, and Honesty). Well, when I did this, I do not have a specific verse count for these respective character qualities, but for all these attributes the verse count was at least 70 for 5 of 7 of those attributes … and for Joy (40+), and Honesty (50+). Positively Interesting, Huh :). Another Positive aspect regarding the included Positivity Tools & Skills Process is, this Process could provide the impetus or incentive to some People, to Help them to possibly begin the process to build up, or amend their Foundation/Core, which as addressed, is Essential. Yes, the parallels are Very Strong and that is why combining the Positivity Tools/Skills Process along with section 4 matters (Our Faith/Our Foundation), for Personal Improvement or Recovery from Our Issues, is So Effective.
Furthermore, the Positivity Tools/Skills Process does complement/supplement the Bible, addressing How Best we can take care of Ourselves, based on our Biological and Physiological makeup as humans, not covered within the Bible. Examples of this include: Importance of Exercise, Eating well, :)s/laughter… how to breathe Best as humans … how to deal with our worries as Best we can, dealing with those worries of today, and not the worries of tomorrow or thereafter, as addressed in the Bible (in Matthew). Likely other complementary relationships exist but those are not coming to mind as I’m writing this. But you get the idea… So Collectively, another reason why this Combo is So Powerful!
Another factor rationalizing why combine the Positivity Process with Our Faith/Our Foundation … Doesn’t it seem when battling Our negative thoughts, as numerous ones crop up, we eventually think or realize… well, there are those negative thoughts which seem to be just trivial, ridiculous, and truly meaningless really, but are bothersome nonetheless … But then, there are those other more troubling negative thoughts which crop up, or maybe a barrage of negative thoughts occurring at times, which we swear are Evil based, amounting to negativity which seems like it is trying to tear us down & rip us apart, especially when we falter into a Depressive state.… I used to refer to that source of negativity as the saboteur within me !!?? Now I know, this is more Evil than that, as it feels like this Evil force is trying to tear us away from our Connection with God, Seriously Scaring Us… Sufferers, I think you know what I am talking about here! Well I go into this a bit more in section 4, for Very Good reasons :)!
I do often refer to the Positivity Tools/Skills Process (i.e. Book’s majority in page count only) to be a Stepping Stone, or an Enhancement of Faith! This Process would allow negative thinking Individuals a Quicker Path to allow One’s Faith to Grow, as we put those Positivity Tools/Skills into play, Clearing our minds from all the negative clutter, allowing Our Thoughts to Clear. Isn’t it understood, when we are Positive vs. negative, and are Clear of mind, Our Connection to Everything in and around us is So Much Better vs. when we are negative? Including for All That Is Above :). Hence, this Positivity Process does allow our Connection with the “Big Picture” (God), to become Stronger and Stronger, and Deeper and Deeper as we progress!This is Certainly what I experienced…!
Regarding the 2nd to the last paragraph shown above, In section 4.1 of the Book I write this paragraph in a different way as shown:
Another factor rationalizing why combine the Positivity Process with Our Faith/Our Foundation … Doesn’t it seem when battling Our negative thoughts, when numerous ones crop up, we eventually think or realize… well, there are those negative thoughts that seem to be just trivial, ridiculous, and truly meaningless really, but are bothersome nonetheless … But then, there are those other more troubling negative thoughts which crop up, or maybe a barrage of negative thoughts occurring at times, which we could swear are Evil based or something like that, amounting to this negativity that is really trying to bring us way down.… I used to refer to that source of negativity as the saboteur within me !!?? Now I feel, this could be more (Evil) than that, but who knows… Sufferers, I think you know what I am talking about here …So Yes, this is yet another good reason to lock into section 4 (Our Faith/Our Foundation/ Higher Power) providing us That Shield or Safety Net supporting us, during Very Difficult times. And I could swear, at the time I was writing the 4th Edition text, contemplating matters… there was some Very negative force it Really felt like, which wanted to pull me down and away from doing this writing(!)… Yeah, just like the Bible says, I am now convinced at times, the devil/Satan is at work, trying to bring us down or tear us apart…
Now in Section 4.4 (Simplifying Life & Putting this Section 4 Belief System in Perspective.):
NOTE:This is where I tie Positivity Statements we say to ourselves per the Positivity Tools/Skills Process together with Prayer Statements to Effectively Double the Power of our Self-Talk to ourselves… Besides I explain more of Why Doing This Is SO IMPORTANT:
Regarding the Big Picture: I think a Real Good Way to start seeing and feeling this from an individual perspective, is, first of all go out and look up and around and notice what was provided to us without those cell phones in hand (as previously mentioned)! Be Gracious and Appreciative of all that was provided to us. Tune into that YouTube link on Gratitude, included towards the end of section 7! Additionally, I suggest you add the following words to those Positive statements that you say to yourself when you go through the process of Improvement, or Recovery, or Post Recovery: ……“Through You God and Jesus, Because of You God and Jesus & Have Faith & Trust!”. And remember, God and Jesus is within each one of us, so Having Faith & Trust means Having Faith & Trust in God/Jesus and Ourselves. (4) Cases in point, per the listing of the Positives that we want to say to ourselves in our Daily lives (ref: section 6.16), to make for a Good if not a Great day:
• Look for the Good, the Pluses, and the Positives in anything,everything, anybody, everybody, anytime and all the time ThroughYou God and Jesus, Because of You God and Jesus (& Have Faith & Trust!). This does not mean you need to always see the Good, but just keep on looking for it … and again Have Faith & Trust:)!
• Feel the Excitement, Energy, and Enthusiasm of Life with Childlike Exuberance and Enthusiasm, Through You God and Jesus, Because of You God and Jesus & Have Faith & Trust!.
• Live in the Present moment, make the most of the moments and enjoy the Special Moments with Child-Like Exuberance and Enthusiasm, Through You God and Jesus, Because of You God and Jesus & Have Faith & Trust!.
• Positives, Positives, Positives — Emanate Positive Energy and Good Feelings no matter what, and no matter how I feel within reason, if I can, when I can, the Best I can, Through You God and Jesus, Because of You God and Jesus & Have Faith & Trust!.
If you can lock into a section 4 related Belief system as you become a Positive thinker, then such Positive self-talk could feel so Good and Uplifting for Anyone really. It sure does for me, but it is a matter of not only just saying the words, but Feeling Those Words (from the Heart). Allowing your Faith to Grow enhances your ability to Feel this way; this I am Completely Convinced of, but words can’t explain That Feel, or How Exactly To Get There, other than the need for True Belief! I have been saying and Feeling these Positive statements regularly for quite some time now, and it just feels all so Good, Positive, and Real….. Because It Is :)!!
I am Certain, when we battle Deep Depression as I have, the Power in Something Much Bigger than Us, is a Huge factor in the Process to help deal with such matters in Our Lives, when coupled with the Positivity Tools/Skills Process. What Definitely Helps, as I’ve learned, are those (4) Positivity self-talk statements intermixed with Prayer mentioned above, as we allow Our Faith to Grow… Doing this just seems to double up on How Powerful they can be when dealing with Our Issues.
In fact, I formulated those 4 bulleted Positivity/Prayer statements above, when I was going through a Significant Depressive time in my Life early on! I was definitely in a Bad way at the time… I just remember when I kept saying/thinking those words during those times, things really started turning around for me Positively, pulling me out of the Mud … Previously, I was providing Positive self-talk to myself which I had learned by that time, but that alone did not seem to cut it in that state of mind I was in. I Needed Additional (!), and that is when I felt the need to lean more on/into my Faith… That was What I Needed! I Knew by then, no way in hell I was going to go with that medication garbage (!); hmmm fitting words :)! That made it Very Clear, the Importance & Power of tying Our Positive Statements in with Prayer (Faith), especially when in Recovery from Depression (at the very least for me as I felt at times). But Yes, I found that providing such self-talk to myself, seems Very Effective all the time. And an FYI for ya … I do often end those end of Positivity/Prayer statements now with, “….. aligning myself with Your Principles God & Jesus that I learn from the Bible”.
The Importance of Faith in dealing with Issues, Certainly does not apply to me Only, needless to say… How Often have We heard from So Many who have gone through some Seriously Difficult & Tough/Rock Bottom times with e.g. Addictions, Depression, or other, where the Common Denominator for Recovery was Their Faith #1… How SO TRUE as I Felt It and Lived It myself first hand, especially when matters fall outside Our Control. As previously mentioned, you may want to Read “Unbroken” (a terrific Overall Book!), or see the “Unbroken” sequel “Unbroken: Path to Redemption”, which addresses an extreme case where Faith ultimately Saved The Life of Louis Zamparini, who suffered, understandably and terribly, with PTSD, and consequently, alcoholism.
Well, That’s It but I Hope You Get The Picture as to the Importance of the Parallels & Correlation which exists between the Positivity Tools/Skills Process & The Bible & Why This Combination Makes Total Sense & Why It Is So Powerful in Turning Lives around as I have witnessed within myself, my Son, (2) Very Spiritual People (when began Working the Positivity Process) I came across who were Suffering Appreciably, pretty much just as bad as I was in the past, who had the Will & Desire to Work on themselves (I.e. They TRIED!)… The Impacts Tremendous for them as it was for me… & Really for Others I came across in the Past! … e.g. Take a Look at reviews on the Amazon site for my Book, namely the 9/2/15 Reviewer (“This book literally saved my Life” ), & the 3/4/20 Reviewer (“Life Changing!”) …Ref: https://www.amazon.com/RISE-SHINE-Anxiety-Depression-Management/product-reviews/1499010036/ref=cm_cr_dp_d_show_all_btm?ie=UTF8&reviewerType=all_reviews. These Reviews Say All really besides what I Explain in the Book for myself, & for others who have Benefited Significantly, who just TRIED!
The “5th/FInal Touch Edition” of the Book “Rise and Shine Anxiety & Depression & Life Management Tools”, which took 12 yrs. 10 months to write aside from the 25 years as a Worse Caser I was, is as COMPLETE of a TRUE Self-Help Book you will find… It Is TIMELESS providing the Necessary Details in Optimizing our Temple/Our Lives… i.e. Our Minds/Emotions (to a Great Degree if Struggle), Our Bodies (to a lesser degree), &Our SPIRIT (“At Least Half the Game in Life if consider Life a Game…“).
In Support of Faith Formation/ Faith Growth in Life which is the emphasis of section 4 in the Book, besides what the Book already addresses, I Highly Recommend tuning into a free Bible App, such as“Through The Word” (https://throughtheword.org/) which you can install on your cell phone or laptop. I find this App to be Extremely Important providing Necessary Interpretation of various areas of the Bible which can be Rather or Very Confusing. I can assure you, based on Personal Experience, we don’t want to just pass over those areas of confusion or ?s in mind, like a mild speed bump not thinking too much of, but it’s a Big Advantage to tune into this Bible App. “Through The Word” addresses All Old Testament, & New Testament Bible Chapters, beginning with the Interpretation of THE WORD in the Bible for each chapter, followed by THE WORDas we listen to & then Understand Appropriately to support Needs for Faith/Spiritual Formation & Growth… Very IMPORTANT I can Assure you!!!
I am Certain if I was aware of & utilized this “Through The Word” App in support of going through the Bible a few times which I have done, & then Understood what the Bible/WORD Truly says vs. the deceptive teachings I was subjected to in my formative years as addressed, & vs. Reading the Bible on my own as I was doing, all that I went thru in those 5 months of PAIN, would not have happened!… Although, because I have LEARNED So Much in Process, it was all meant to be, not only for the Benefit of Myself, but Certainly for the Benefit of Others which My Book Is All About… To HELP Others!
The “5th/Final Touch Edition” of the Book in section 4.1 Spirituality, addresses that last Weed/Issue within me, unbeknownst to me through my Whole Life actually till October 1/2024 when I Blew Out of a 5 months tail spin into Deep Depression I spiraled into mysteriously even after all I Learned thru that point in my Life… Yeah??!!… Shaking like a Leaf again & All, as I was Literally Unraveling! I NEVER/EVER thought I would go through any of that again after going through those 25 years as a Worse Caser, with Anxiety, Depression/Deep Depression, & OCD, having tried to end my Life twice, & 4Xs in the psych wards, & again have Learned All I have Learned & written about through 4 Editions of this TRUE Self-Helper! Anyway the 5th Edition of the Book, addresses All About what happened , & the subsequent Miracle & Awakening which transpired thereafter, which was Huge for me as I Know it would be Important & Influential for Others.
BOTTOM LINE reason why I began my free fall into Deep Depression was because I learned my kidneys were/are Failing (as I learned they are 17 % functional in the May 3/2024 time frame) as I was beginning to really feel the fatigue attributed to this condition… I became Very negative wondering, if I were to die tomorrow, am I Good for God/Jesus??!! This initiated my tumble into Deep Depression like a free fall… A few days later what made things More negative & down…. I swear I have No Idea How It Happened but when I woke up that morning & as I found out shortly after, I had a broken bone in my foot!? And I Swear, I Have No Clue How That Happened!!!??? I was doing lots of hiking before this & there was not a time where I recalled hurting myself in any way which could cause that, nor that evening did I fall out of bed or something like that ????… Hindsight tells me now, God has a plan for Everyone, & at times sometimes HE needs to put us through Trying Times for us to LEARN something we are just not seeing at the time but He is leading us to… Yes, I Certainly Believe that was happening here!… So I was restricted moving around with crutches only for the next 6 weeks which brought me down further… Fortunately though, I was not suicidal as I was earlier in my Life when I was going thru all I went through years back! Then there was another Major Stress-er which arose which has since been Understood & Resolved… THANKS GOD AGAIN & AGAIN… !!!!
Now as for the True Source of my Depression, this became quite Clear as I Lived the Pain & wrote of… I was born & raised Catholic & based on the misguided way of the Church & how it impacted me during my formative years, I felt I Needed to be Perfect to be Good in the Eyes of God/Jesus, contrary to the TRUE Christian Understanding I recently LEARNED & What the Bible Truly Says... So as it summed up, I had this Fear of God/Jesus in me MUCH MORE than the Healthy level of fear of God we Need!
When my Soulful/Christian Neighbors came to my aid as I was UNRAVELING & invited me to the Church they attend, Calvary Chapel, Refuge, in Huntington Beach, this made me Realize, Even though I have read the Bible a few times in my Life by then, I was just not Connecting the Dots Appropriately as I was reading The Bible/The WORD on my own, minus any form of Bible Study, or Fellowship which I recognize now to be Important! The stars became aligned for me when I heard the 3 Pastors at Refuge, in 3 Successive Sundays/Sermons which are handled like Bible Studies (The Way It Should Be!), as the timing of things could not have been More Perfect, considering my situation. They discussed The Most Important Question we should be asking, concerning our Faith/Spiritual NEEDS: i.e. “What are the Regulations/Requirements to be Good Enough In the Eyes of God” being Christian as written in The Bible?,which I do address in my Book to bring to the Attention of Others! … Something we all should acknowledge/question if Christians, or related (e.g. if Catholic in my case), or if we practice our Faith via a different Religion or Belief System... As I address, We Need to ask ourselves, are our Regulations/Requirements we have Practicing our Faith, Overly Strapping/Excessive/Unnecessarily Ritualistic, etc., similar to the Old Testament Ways & Laws of Moses which defined God’s Covenant during Old Testament prior to the Birth of JESUS, contrary to True Christian Requirements/Regulations derived from the Bible (New Testament)? I also point out in 4.1, The Most Important Fact we Know being Christian… in case there is no Belief in Jesus when Practicing Faith, then where is our Hope to be Good for God (?!), since Jesus provides our Only Pathway to GOD & Heaven as humans?
For Non-Believers & for those Living by their own way, I PRAY !!! Can’t Even Imagine… For Matters Outside our Control, or for Deep Depression or for Serious Levels of Depression going on, based on Personal Experiences, Nothing Else Is Going to Truly Help us other than Reaching Up High & Grabbing that Hand of God/Jesus Above for our Support! Support from other humans is So Limiting & there will Never Be A Magic Pill! And if you Knew anything about the End Times & what’s going to happen as Prophesized & as written in “Revelation” (Last Section in the New Testament), you would Likely Yearn for a Change in your ways & possibly/hopefully/Pray-fully begin Faith Formation & Growth !… If you never heard of what written, you can’t Imagine anything Worse than what is going to happen to us if Non-Believers, where the Bible says you will be experiencing nothing but “Weeping & Gnashing of teeth”… And Yes, “Through The Word” App will let you know all about thisas desired…
Can’t Express to you How Important “Through The Word” has been since downloading it on my phone providing LIGHT & Clarity to those many areas confusion we come across while reading the Bible/Gospel on our own, where we question things!!!& To All,It’s Never Too Early to Start Faith Formation/Growth for You &/or Your Children, & “Through The Word” would be a Great Source of THE WORD/BIBLE To LEARN from :)… Urge you not to remain Unprepared nor Wait Too Long..!
Some Background & Why Select this Anxiety and Depression and Life Management True Self-Help Book?
First of all, I need to identify, I (Author Ron) am one of those who is pretty much “Honest to a Fault” as they say, especially by today’s standards. And hope all understand there is No Fault in Honesty… When you understand that Honesty is not only the Best Policy but the Only Policy, you realize there is absolutely nothing to hide… And Certainly, Honesty towards Ourselves and Others is Very Important in the process to Improve. Yes, I am human, and hence, hardly perfect (!), and I do falter at times, but nothing like during those early formative/teen years which I do address in the Book’s only optional section 1.2; i.e. upfront, where I identify a bit about my upbringing, & in item “1) So am I honest?”, along with some :)s as it naturally turned out :). Nowadays if I falter with dishonesty, it would have to do with harmless accentuations of truths if anything (i.e. saying whatever is bigger, worse, faster, slower, grander, etc. vs. reality). However, I Assure you, there are no Untruths being told within this Book, about this Book, or elsewhere on Book sites when my words are used. And how could I anyway, with section 4 being what It Is :).
I bet my Life on the contents of this Book because frankly speaking, I would not be around today (nor would you be reading this), had it not been for the Tremendous Skills/Tools I came across, Learned, and subsequently, to have been Lucky Enough to Grow to Experience and Know what is Written in this Book; And all this for the price of a Good Pizza, with extra toppings really, and future bargains are a possibility :). And as for me, what that amounts to, is I would be receiving maybe an average tip as the delivery boy (at age 68 now :)). Regarding the :)s you will see throughout this Book: You will understand that Humor, a Laugh, and a Smile are very therapeutic (for specific reasons), and is like taking a free natural pill to lift one’s Spirit and Well Being. And yeah, you may find a grammatical error here or there, but not in Content, and what I say to that, which is the way we need to handle the mistakes we make day to day in our lives is, first of all, fess up and say, Ooopppsss, Sorry :), I’m just a human being, and to be human is to err.
When looking back at all the Changes within … from having Significant to Extreme Levels of Anxiety and Depression for approximately 25 years, with all that went along with that … regularly suffering with panic attacks, and sometimes multiple times in a day, feeling like I was the most fragile person on planet earth, (4) times in psych wards, attempting suicide twice… Yeah, a Worse Caser (!)… and then, understand the complete 180 degree turnaround, and Transformation I went through(!), well, it just seems Magical really! Going from being excessively negative all the time, with all the Pains that went along with that, to being Predominantly Positive for the most part, and often Elated & Energized, but yet calm at the same time; you call that Peace of Mind :). Cycling through the process made me feel like I was being set free for the first time in my Life (!), as I sensed the changes coming on … Just So Freeing!! And then being able to look forward to the next moment, the next day, the next whenever … Motivated, and with Excitement instead of with constant dread and fear in the Life I was living; it is a WOW! … Now, whenever emotions are going south at times, based on Life’s Ups and downs, whether things are within my control or outside my control, I now Know, I have the Positivity Tools/Skills, along with my Faith necessary to deal with Life’s Issues as Best as I can as a human. In retrospect, I think I was truly the Ideal Guinea Pig for all of the downs, and now the True Ups involved, and most importantly, for the understanding what it really takes to turn it all around & Flourish.
I have been writing, editing, writing, editing, etc.…while continuing to Grow and Experience matters over the last 10 years, 4 months+ since starting to write this Book. I originally started writing the Original publication, towards the latter part of 2011, even though I did not know I was going to be writing a Book at the time (?). This was spurred by my Son who at the time was going through a downward Anxiety/Depression spiral in his senior year in college, What-Ifing this and that, and the road ahead… Essentially, I started writing for Him to Help, or maybe Save Him, sometime after I had to Save myself back when I was 46. Anyway, just about 2 1/2 years later, the Original Book was published 6/19/2014.
I felt Very Strong about this Original Edition, after going through all I went through, with the 1st 23 of those 25 years just being a continuous saga of increasing levels of Pain & Struggle, till I was 46, and then Completely turning matters around with a Tremendous (Proven & True) Self-Help program I came across, purchased, & worked (i.e. the “core” Process which I flowed down into this Book). Although, I made some serious mistakes of impatience in process which caused me to miss some Key elements along the way, resulting in me to meander some, and sometimes excessively/Deeply into those dark holes again, intermittently, for maybe 2 out of the next 10 years or so … DA me (!) (…you guessed it :)), as I later realized the mistakes made… This drove me to go through the full 15 week program twice more, in the prescribed time, as opposed to racing through it in like 9 weeks which I previously did… And why twice? Well, I wanted to squeeze Everything out of this I could, since by that time in my Life, I realized how Powerful this program was, with nothing better!
Yeah, after I sped through the Program the first time through, I did crash real hard with an impending divorce coming along which I was in denial about, and then happening. And that landed me in psych wards (3) of the (4) times actually, with the last two being back to back; was just not ready as I tried to migrate back to my normal life too quickly… But, when I was pulling out of those mental jams in the follow-up out-patient care facilities, which had zero to do with what they (the professionals) were informing me of, and Everything to do with being able to again see and grasp all the coping Tools & Skills I had already learned, I realized how Powerful that Program was/is! I Rapidly Improved back to my Good Positive form each of those times, which I know, more than raised the eyebrows of the working “professionals”. I sensed and then knew thereafter, that I really did know as much or likely more of What It Really Takes to turn a Life around, than the professionals seemed to, although obviously, I was missing somethings… Finally (!), I thought I better go back and do that Program again, and that is when I learned of those mistakes I made… Nonetheless, along the way in my journey, based on pondering the overall Process time and time again, that ultimately allowed me to shore up & Add to the Process, especially when falling off on the depressive side of the fence. These improvements, Certainly Helped me ++, and I Know can Only Help Others as well! And Yes, in the Book, I do share those mistakes I made, so that the Reader does not make the same mistakes as I did to Progress!
Anyway, I had no idea I was ever going to make changes to this Original cut at the time. I was (and am) Convinced, the Key Ingredients in this Book, including this Optimum & Proven Positivity Process I Knew & Know it to be, plus section 4 in this Book (i.e. Our Belief System, Spirituality, Mindfulness … Our Faith), besides Exercise & Eating well, Combined, is All We Can Do as humans to Take Care of Ourselves through Life. But, due to the continued Growth, Education/Experiences, and the grey hairs along the way, including having gone through some additional down times, this prompted me to greatly improve on the clarity, and rationale supporting this Book’s Combination of what it takes… So Yeah, Changes were inevitable, and I was Driven to do so. This included, providing another level of definition tying both the Positivity Process, and section 4 (Our Faith … allowing Our Faith to Grow) together, addressing the parallels/commonality between, and the complimentary relation of Both… and when Summed Up, this clearly defines All We Really Can Do to enhance Our Positivity, and Total Wellness & Well Being.
Per the the 4th Edition updates, I finally addressed this Book is not only Important for Anxiety & Depression, but is likewise Important in dealing with most mental health conditions People suffer with. These include PTSD, OCD, ADD, ADHD, BPD, Other acronyms (?), AddictionRecovery, even Bipolar 2, as long as Bi-Polar 1 or Schizophrenia based conditions are not involved, which necessitates different/unknown (to me) solutions, including the apparent needs for medication for Life (?). This True Self-Help Books use for most mental health issues, was obvious to me for some time considering the fact This Book applies to Everyone providing All We Can Do Naturally in support of a Healthy Well-Being… Why I did not bother to add this in earlier Editions, I do not know … guess I can chalk this up as, Oooopppsss, Sorry, but I am only human here :)…
4th Edition updates also included observations made while cycling through those psych wards & follow-up outpatient visits… As I connect those dots and sum matters up, with human nature qualities… how we operate as humans… on how things are really going considering related medication stats… and then realize the direction Society (driven by people) is going (ref: section 4.4.), it is Numbing!
Since the Original publication 6/19/2014, 4 publications followed, with the 2nd Edition published (rev. date) 2/19/2015, the 3rd Edition (rev date) 4/7/2016, the “4th / Final Edition -Final Cut” (… well, I thought it was going to be truly the Final one at the time…), published 5/15/2019, and now a “5th/Final Touch Edition” which will be published some time after 10/30/24 as I am writing this.
As for this 5th Edition Book, the main reason for this had to do with necessary changes in the Spirituality section 4.1, which turned out to be a Huge Awakening and Influence on me as well as I know it could have on others, as valuable lessons materialized… Updates to the Book were based on a blog post generated upon this Awakening which was the driver for This 5th Edition publication; i.e. [https://riseandshineanxietydepression.net/2020/11/15/]. The 5th Edition changes made include… a), consistency between the first paragraph of this Preface/Summary section, where I address… “…When you understand that Honesty is not only the Best Policy but the Only Policy, you realize there is absolutely nothing to hide…”, vs. the Dis-Integrity issue I addressed in section 4.1, first paragraph for the first 4 Editions of this Book… b), addressing Realization as to the Importance of Fellowship, Bible Study, & Prayer in one’s Faith/Spiritual Growth… although knew of the Importance of Prayer as all the earlier Book Editions addressed the Importance of inclusion of Prayer statements along with Positivity statements in self-talk, when dealing with Serious levels of Depression! … c), words addressing the Awakening/Enlightenment I personally went thru, which had a Huge Influence on me, as it would have on Others (Unquestionably)… d) Upfront Tidbits in support of working the Positivity Tools/Skills Process which were added in section 1.4, & e) added clarity & consistency involving the Importance of section 4 NEEDS for our Well-Being, especially when dealing with Serious Levels of Depression, or for those matters which fall outside our control.
Yeah, I certainly thought the 4th Edition of the Book was Truly Final with no further changes conceivable. However, on May 3/24, I started a pitfall into Deep Depression lasting 5 months (which led to a True Awakening)… So Very Painful though, thinking… How Could This Be Happening & What is going on??!!… I felt this way considering this Book I wrote, is All we can do for ourselves Naturally, to take care of ourselves through Life !!! So, I was Baffled, and was Unraveling, as I was thinking & saying to God…not again Please…!!! … Fortunately though, Thanks to God & Thanks for Fellowship/Bible Study & Prayer, & the Beautiful People Involved in this Personal Awakening & NEED, as I pulled out of that Depressive state on October 1/24… Amazing!!!… When I subsequently did a recap in thought of what went on & how I pulled out of this abruptly, hindsight made me realize this was a necessary trial & tribulation phase for me in my Life which was all meant to be… I realized then after about 68 yrs, 2 months of being on this planet, I had been Truly hanging onto living Life as a stickler of perfectionism in my relationship with God, always wondering if I was Good Enough for God. This was a Spiritual nuance I just didn’t see through all those years, even after going through & reading the Bible several times by then?… Yeah, this oversight caused me to Live Life in bondage ridiculously holding onto a guilty soul, as I continued to miss the bullseye & often the target of Spiritual Righteousness as we all do as humans, imperfect as we all are… This Renewed Awareness, made it clear this Awakening would likewise be Impactful/Influential for others, not doing well, or for those not sure of their Faith, or for those questioning their Faith. Section 4.1 explains this Awakening/Enlightenment further & what this could mean for others…
As for the Book’s Main Ingredients etc.:
A Complete Process including Detailed Instructions, and Optimum/Proven Coping Skills & Tools, Unmatched I believe, combining what I Learned from which Saved my Life upfront, plus additional elements provided which absolutely can only Help+, are provided for All. These Tools & Skills are those we were not born with, but we need to Learn. This Detailed Positivity Process, which also addresses the importance of Exercise & Eating Well (i.e. per section 3), and laughter & :)s, teaches us how to change or reprogram a negative mindset to a Positive mindset to prevent or eliminate significant levels of Anxiety and Depression in Life. More Specifically, this allows us to drill down to our individual negative thoughts/mindset, changing those to Positive thoughts/mindset, and also drilling down to the sources of Our negativity and dealing with that as Best as we can; this personalizes the process for Anyone. This is the Bottom Line Key to Self-Improvement or Recovery from an Anxiety & Depression perspective. Besides, a Positive mindset is what it takes to Aspire in Life; most all People believe this by now. This Process is based on the premise & the (Logical) FACT that a negative thought impacts the brain/body chemistry in a bad/negative way, and a Positive thought reverses that, and impacts brain/body chemistry in a Positive way. If this process works for those most afflicted, such as for me, it will work for Anyone! I am certain there is not anyone who couldn’t get something out of this Book unless they have been fully educated on these matters, and more importantly, have experienced all this. Take it from someone who has been Living and breathing this for 40 years now actually; and believe me a lot of those years up front, felt like it was 24 hours a day. Why for Anyone, is further explained in the 1st paragraph of the Introduction (section 1.).
Additionally, this Book goes One Big Step further, addressing what I and many Others believe, is Necessary to Solidify Recovery (or Improvement) from Our Anxieties & Depression, and then Solidify Our Well Being (i.e. Our Positivity and Peace of Mind). This allows us the potential to achieve True Peace of Mind/Tranquility through Life, Living Comfortably in an imperfect world (Everyone’s Goal!). When we become Positive Thinking People via the Key Tools and Skills Process included in this Book, which Is Crucial for People to appropriately deal with their earthly problems, especially for significant sufferers from Anxiety and Depression, we then become more Clear In Thought and More Apt to See and Sense What Really Is Important in Life; and that Should Include Our Belief System/Spirituality/God (addressed in section 4 of this Book). When we acknowledge, per my and many other People’s Beliefs (hopefully), that without God, there would be absolutely nothing, including Ourselves, all the Animals and Wildlife, and this Ecologically Perfect World we were born into… well, that pretty much sums it up and validates it … doesn’t it, or shouldn’t it :)? Unless of course, we believe in the Big Bang theory where, I guess, that belief is based on some state of entropy or something where All This including Ourselves, just miraculously by luck/chance, came into being and ended up this way ((?:)). For those who are not sure, I ask you… did All of This come from nothing at all, or from Something rather SPECIAL :)? If you’re thinking of something Special, you are on the Right Track :)! … When we work on our Positivity via the Tools, Skills, and Instruction set specifically addressed in this Book, together with Our Faith (section 4), and, Yeah, Exercise & Eating well of course, then I Firmly Believe this is as Good as we can do for ourselves as human beings on planet Earth, providing us that potential to achieve that True Peace of Mind through Life. So Absolutely Mind, Body, Spirit are the factors in our Life we need to work on to provide a Balance in our Lives… And as the Bible essentially says in Corinthians, we need to treat ourselves like a Temple, which encompasses us as a whole… Our Minds, Bodies, & Most Importantly, our Spirit :)!
This Combination of what it takes, allows us to appropriately cope under Very Difficult situations whether matters stack up within or outside of our control. At times, our Positivity which we can develop extensively/beautifully via the included Positivity Tools/Skills Process, can only take us so far, until we reach that threshold within us, past the burden we can bare, when we need More (i.e. Our Faith…); unfortunately, help from another human is very limited. I have grown to know this from firsthand experience, with some of those (very) down times. Considering an example of an Extreme case of the combination of PTSD, and subsequent Addiction (to alcohol), Faith was the only answer for LouisZamperini! His biography is written in the Book“Unbroken”, addressing this, which is also addressed fully in the sequel to the movie “Unbroken”, entitled,“Unbroken: Path to Redemption”.
Additional rationale supporting the Importance and Need to Combine the included Positivity Tools & Skills Process with Our Faith, involves the synonymous nature of doing this when compared to those 12 Step Programs and their approach to deal with addictions (for alcohol or drugs). These programs have been around since 1939, and to this day are considered to be the Best Approach in Dealing with addictions. The basis of these 12 step programs involve the Best Approach steps necessary for People to rid themselves of their specific addictions, and combining this with the Needs for Belief in a Power Greater than Us; and that is Belief in God Ultimately. So, when Combining Our Belief in God with the included Detailed Cognitive/Behavioral Modification Approach, which I Am Convinced to be the Best Means to Resolve Our Problems with negativity, or Resolve Our addiction to negativity which it is in a sense, especially if we are significant sufferers with Anxiety and Depression, sums up and Validates my Complete Understanding (and gut feeling) that in a True Self-Help Book form, It Can’t Get Any Better.
Summing up the Total Process of Recovery, or Significant Improvement of Our Positive Thinking Ways for Anyone, and then Flourishing, depends on Amending or Taking Care of Our Heart & Soul (i.e. Our Spirit/Our Faith addressed in section 4), and Our Mind & Body (i.e. the Positivity Process covered in the majority of the Book, with details in sections 5, & 6, along with importance of Eating Well, & Exercise per section 3). We Need to Learn, to Balance our Lives, Physically, Mentally, and Our Spirit (Our Faith) which collectively defines Our Wellness & Well Being. In stride with what the Bible says, we need to treat ourselves like a Temple, which encompasses our Mind, Body, & Spirit.
Few noteworthy points, before wrapping this Preface/Summary up:
Key information/text in the Book is often repeated for the reason, repetition of information is Important for education/training purposes. Most Importantly, this repetition applies to Sufferers in the process to reprogram their mindset, from being predominantly negative to being Positive
As far as my unorthodox writing style … i.e. Capitalization of words which would not be normally capitalized … that is all based on Passion, Emotions, and Certainty of this subject matter, considering the Tremendous Education & Experience I have had through the years, and the Huge Emotional swings I went through, from the deepest of holes, to Flourishing in effect. As for the :)s, you read something about that already … and then the “… “s … well, just for the flow of what said at times, or for those afterthoughts … , and also when providing snippets to condense a long story into short form, when addressing e.g. a bit of my story which I wanted to keep short … Hey, this Book is not about me … it is about the Reader with the Desire to Help them…
Bottom line, I wrote this Book to Help Someone #1, so they do not have to go through what I had to in my Life! And I have seen the Power of this Book, with Book in hand for several individuals;100% of those I have come across, who I Know Read and Worked it appropriately, the Positive Impacts observed were Impressive, Life Changing & even Life Savings… In an apartment complex I lived at, there were (3) individuals I ran or swam into who worked the Book in the 2nd or 3rd edition forms, & the Impacts seen Completely Blew Me Away leaving me in awe; one of whom provided her Amazon Review 9/2/2015… Then, when it came to the Amazon 3/4/20 Reviewer, who had “Anxiety, Depression, OCD, PTSD his whole life”, who diligently worked the Process in the 4th Edition/Final Cut Book, Completely Turning his Life around, again, Clearly ID’d How Powerful of a Total Process This Is! I address these individuals more in section 1. Introduction/Rationale…
I am an unknown and did not get too many Books out there to date, since it is such a Popularity contest out there for Books and all, besides, in the eyes of naysayers likely, I don’t have a “PHD” by my name. So the thoughts likely amongst many are… What does he know?… Hmmm I just :), Knowing Better :)….. But Yeah, I Know this Book Is Truly Special, tying all aspects of our Well-being together, Knowing this would be Tremendously Beneficial for So Many people out there… Frankly Speaking, I do not think there could be anything better in a Complete Process & True Self-Help Book This Is. Besides, I don’t think anyone ever put this much Passion into a Book like this…! So Please, Read On for You and Your Loved Ones!
Good Words below but just finished off Manuscript for the upcoming “5th/Final Touch Edition” of the Book, where the related words are just more polished, & providing greater Depth into matters…So Yeah, all below is incorporated in the Final Touch Edition of the Book, & is Likely the Most Influential part of the Book as it was for me and as it would likely be for others.
As “Spirituality 4.1 (first paragraph)” is written, being Christian, there were always reservations of what was written thru the 4 editions of the Book including the published “Final Cut” words: “Yeah, I do know what the Bible says, but I always wanted to Lure and not Discriminate nor Drive People away from this Book’s stated Matters/Considerations.…… So please, if you practice your Faith through a different Religion, while reading through this Book, then make the associated switch to the name of your Higher Power, and it should be fitting for you as well .” Yeah, the most difficult paragraph to write to get it just RIGHT!….. but again I never did feel very Good about this, especially more so lately…
Considering what is being said, this paragraph was written in a earthly/humanistic way & not in a Godly Truthful Way/Manner… Of course I had nothing but Good Intent & kindness I was thinking in writing this as such, but below I have added words along with the existing published words in “[[bolded/underined/Blue text]]” reflecting the Christian Truths of the matter.
This acknowledgement over time Really became bothersome and led to this 4.1 paragraph being a necessary stumbling block for me recently, resulting in me to now focus & reflect on this as written below (more or less), as I continue to address this Book to others I meet, planting seeds for one’s Wellness/Wellbeing. Yeah, with all the stressors which were amounting for me in Life recently along with this realization, I hit a 5 month Deep depression/anxiety pitfall… So Painful, thinking I can’t believe this is happening again after all I suffered years back & This Book I wrote which I was convinced to be All we can do for ourselves as humans, the Natural Way, for the Mind (Mentally/Emotionally), SPIRIT (our Faith & Foundation), & Body!!……. But now, NO MORE with my continued Faith Growth as I finally realized, after so many years, the Importance of what is being said below allowing me to finally Let Go of my perfectionist ways I was holding onto thru my whole life till now actually, often thinking I was not good enough in the eyes of God… How wrong of me to feel overburdened as such as a Christian!As the pastor at the Christian church I attend said in his sermon, if you feel you are not good enough for God, well that is a Dead End way of Life… I can assure you this is So True, living this way as I have for so long !!!Interestingly, prior to this acknowledgement & prior to when I spiraled down recently into those 5 months of depression, I always felt I had to go thru a lengthy ritualistic set of prayers daily to feel that I was Good enough that day for God, indicative of living my life per the Old Ways & Laws in bondage! WOW, as I just have now realized this!THANKS GOD & JESUS!
“4.1 Spirituality:
“I firmly believe there is a need to believe in a Higher Power in our lives. Need to identify up front that I am Christian, so I refer to our Higher Power as God, and our Savior as Jesus Christ. Other Religions may have a different name for their Higher Power and may not have a Religious Being that parallels Jesus Christ; that, I am not certain of. [[There are no Parallels to Jesus Christ as Jesus is the Only Begotten Son of God, who provides the only Pathway to God & Heaven we have as humans… Jesus provided his ministry here on earth thru 33 yrs of Life, speaking & preaching the Word of God, & then provided the Ultimate Sacrifice for the forgiveness of Sins of all mankind as he was Condemned for going against the grain of the old Jewish laws & leaders, was Crucified on the Cross, Died, & was buried, & then, on the 3rd day, he Rose from the dead bringing Life, Salvation, & Peace Of Mind to us as sinners, which we all are really, but certainly don’t mean to be, as we follow the New Testament Principles/Ways, ( foremost are the most Important Commandments in the Bible being the Love of God/Jesus #1 in our Lives, & Love our neighbors (everyone) as ourselves)……contrary to the Old Testament ways if we are Jewish, living a life of rituals in order to be Good with God, or otherwise if not Jewish, if living by the old ways in a sense which tends to keep us in bondage to sin, thinking we need to be perfect and need to hit the bullseye or target of perfection in our quest to be Good Enough for God. How often do we miss the bullseye & maybe the target being as Good as we can be as humans :)? Living the New True Christian Way of Life means we have That Heartfelt Love, Belief, Faith, & Trust in God/Jesus & have the Understanding of the True meaning of the Ultimate Sacrifice made & the Resurrection from death Jesus went thru on our behalf, which combined are The Only Regulation/Requirement we Need, to be GOOD in the eyes of God, as we confess our sins when we know we have done wrong & have that heartfelt desire to improve!! This allows us as sinners to LET GO…..Freeing ourselves of the Guilt & Pains we may feel as we often miss that bullseye or target as humans,… Give it some thought when we don’t live our life as such, and get caught up in that negative state of mind of pain with a domino effect of negativity going on, we lose focus & may lose that connection with God/Jesus . This sets us up for an attack from the enemy where it feels like he is trying to pull us down & tear us apart which might be actually happening?!…. Doesn’t it really feel this way at times especially when we are feeling Very negative & down, in a state of Depression?!!! So the as stated above “Only Regulations/Requirements we Need as Christians to be GOOD in the eyes of God”, brings us that FREEDOM, Sanctuary, & Peace of Mind we all yearn for in/thru Life. When understanding what the Bible says throughout the New Testament it becomes Clear (finally for myself), during the times when the Apostles were preaching to the Jewish People during Jesus’s Ministry, & thereafter, post Resurrection of Jesus, preaching to the Gentiles, that This was/is the Common Message being provided to All!!! To be additionally Clear on matters of such Faith Formation & Spiritual Growth, this leads to one’s Strong Foundation which forms the basis of our Positivity in Life when we get this RIGHT, & forms the basis of our negativity when we get this wrong which will result in down/Anxious/Depressive times no matter how Positive we feel we may be……By The Way: The Positivity Tools/Skills Process in the Book are Strong and are Very Helpful for those if we initially Struggle or Suffer with various levels of Anxiety & Depression going on in Life, daily/hourly, or maybe every minute it seems & feels like, living life with low self-esteem, with little self-confidence, and are willing to really work this Process. The resultant Positivity we can develop thru this process, expedites the process of Feeling Good about ourselves for the first time in life, letting us know our Best is more than Good Enough at whatever we do, our jobs etc.. Furthermore, this process enhances our ability to Connect with the Important things/Matters in Life including people around us, & God, which provides for an enhancement of Faith & a Stepping Stone to Greater Faith!! So then, unless we Truly develop a Strong Foundation in our Lives thru our Spiritual Growth, we will likely crumble, & Suffer thru Life since the Positivity Tools/Skills process alone Just Will Not Cut It (!) in the long run!! But combined it makes us as Strong as we can be as humans! ]]] So please, if you practice your Faith through a different Religion, while reading through this Book, then make the associated switch to the name of your Higher Power, and it should be fitting for you as well [[??!… Hmmm… Think about this… Based on What It Takes To Be Good In the Eyes of God, or whoever you may call your Supreme Being (Maker of All things), isn’t this the Most Important Issue we all face, consider, or question in our Spiritual Lives? It Has To Be I would think… So if you practice your Faith under a different religion, Ask Yourselves, are your Requirement/Regulations to be Good in the Eyes of God, or whoever may be your Supreme Being, maybe more Ritualistic, more Demanding, more Stressful, or generally seem Over-bearing vs. the Freedom & the Requirements we have as Christians, as explained above… Think about this…Need not say more…]]. If you are not sure of, or have doubts about the basis of your Faith, then consider the Christian Way consistent with the way this Book is written; sure is Doing It for me :)… Yeah, I do know what the Bible says, but I always wanted to Lure and not Discriminate nor Drive People away from this Book’s stated Matters/Considerations. In effect, this is written and consistent with the 2nd most important commandment in the Bible: Love Our Neighbors as Ourselves [[Since Love encompasses the Needs to address TRUTH to those around us, although painful at times, so much for this original argument/rationale vs. consistency when addressing the TRUTH.]] There are Certainly Many Beautiful People who practice their Faith through different Religions and Belief Systems, indicative of what Morgan Freeman’s Story of God series addresses. All that I can say is, I am not the JUDGE/MASTER, and understand that Only God Knows how we all will fair, when all is Said [[This has been Said/Prophesized & written in the Bible (i.e. Revelations)]] and Done.…………..”
These times are Very Trying & possibly the most difficult of times to deal with so we can all use All the Help We can get especially for matters which have fallen outside our control. So, Yeah, I URGE you to consider the Christian Way & Beliefs, Strongly Suggesting to read the Bible, starting off with the New Testament ( but, subsequently the Old Testament to understand the Biblical history leading to the New Testament) for your own complete understanding & Wellness allowing your TRUE FAITH to Grow with age!!!
Info Below has been incorporated into the 5th/Final Touch Edition of Book.
Below are a few Important Up Front Tidbits which have formulated in past for Others I was Cheerleading for in Process to Work on yourself Properly… Of course Free Cheerleading is always provided if desired, but other than a few Tid-Bits or Key Suggestions up-front ID’d below you do not really need these Cheerleading services as the Book is Complete having gone thru 7 yrs. 4 months of formulation in publishing the “4th Editon– “The Final Cut” of the Book to get it Just Right…
I Suggest read these thru a couple times so that they will come to mind when you are starting up & Working the Process. Enjoy the Ride my Friends & Realize The Huge Positive Impacts this is going to have on you when you, those Magic Words… Just Try & give it your Best Shot! You Cannot Fail if you Try!!!
If desire to get a E-Book & Work this then Highly Suggest to use a LapTop or a Kindle! If you are considering to use your cell phone to work from, I feel that approach would be overly broken up when Working on self real time. If you do not have a LapTop or a Kindle then suggest to get a Paperback Book instead & if you do that Make Sure you order “New” to assure you are getting the latest version of the Book, i.e. The “4th Edition– The Final Cut” for the Main Book, “Rise and Shine Anxiety & Depression & Life Management Tools.”.
When you are “Reading” the Main Book, up front in the Introductory area etc. up to section 5 & 6, if you were thinking about using an audio app to read the Book, I HIGHLY SUGGEST NOT TO!… Often people when they start reading books via audio apps. are often multi-tasking & not fully engaged into to matters which are So Very Important. For fiction reading that would be fine, but not for this! In the case of this Book I would highly Recommend not using an audio app of any kind,especially when working sections 5 & 6 as Instructed to assure your Focus in Working on yourself here. Later on as a refresher, then sure if you wish to but when you are Working the Process suggest not to!
When I was Helping the 3/4/20 Reviewer up front, he had told me he was reading other Books on Mental Health when he started reading the Main Book (The Final Cut) … I told him, Please, drop the MH related Books Completely (like a ton of bricks…!). Hey there is a lot of convoluted information on Mental Health out there, & if you were to do the multiple reads which the 3/4/20 Reviewer was originally doing, that would only serve to dilute & confuse you vs. tuning in 100% to the Optimum Process written in This True Self-Helper. I Assure you the Book has All Your Needs & if another MH Book is good then I can Assure you that would be only a subset of what is covered in This Book!But YES, Absolutely, if you are reading in parallel a Spiritually Based Book, that would be More Than Fine :)!
As far as being Patient in Process of doing the Repetitive Training Process in sections 5 & 6, the Book makes it quite clear about those matters… i.e. definitely you do not want to rush thru the Process as I did… ultimately going thru the 15 week Process I Learned in like 9 weeks time Mistakenly which I Paid the Price of Impatience thru 10 yrs thereafter actually, not realizing the mistake I made until I read the Instruction of what to do or not to do those 10 yrs later… But also as I address in Book you Definitely do not want to to stall out in Process since there is So Much to Learn along the way… The Book Process is an approximate 12 week Process as I was readily able to compress the 15 week schedule I Learned from into a 12 week process , as it came out without missing a beat, which was quite evident as I realized the not Good but Tremendous Positive Impacts this was having on 100% of those who Tried & Worked it diligently, with Book in hand only... Each of the section 5 & 6 subsections Suggesting/Requiring repetitive Training are geared to Try to complete each of these subsection in one weeks time… Extending some of those to 1 1/2 weeks should not post any problems… & Maybe 2 weeks MAX would only be Suggested if Needed… But we Certainly want to keep the flow & the Learning a going! This is Important so as not to significantly impact the Reprogramming Process going on per the Repetitive Training you’ll be doing.
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NOTE: Something to bring to your attention regarding an Oversight I have in the Book per section 1.1, Item 2) towards the tail end of the 1st paragraph:
“…..Guess what path I had to follow, when I was truly at Rock Bottom in my Life? Written material alone was not good enough since I was so desperate, anxious, and perplexed, and I was not really in a state of mind to be able to read or comprehend things in my A & D saturated mind. Of course, I did not have this Book in hand. But even if I did, as bad as I was feeling, I would likely have fallen into this category 2), and ordered Lucinda’s (Midwest Center’s) program which is consistent with the fact the “Attacking Anxiety and Depression Program” was geared to and was advertised for those most afflicted.”
In reality though just like section 1.1 Item 1) identifies as a Suggestion & as Section 1.9 furthermore infers, the Meditation Routine is something we do from the Get Go when start Working the Positivity Tools/Skills process per the Book or Program Learned from (i.e. as ID’d in the Book in section 5.2…). That allows us to Calm down our Minds to be able to Read & Comprehend matters to accommodate this TRUE Self-Helper; hence no difference between the Book or the Program/Workbook I Learned from regarding Reading & Comprehension Concern. (Further details of this included in a Blog Post written: https://riseandshineanxietydepression.net/2022/03/28 )
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That Should be it my Friends… Like I said Enjoy the RIDE as this Education is Positively SO HUGE!!!
Below is the subject DM provided to a Young Lady on twitter who has been Suffering Terribly for a few years now… I have been trying to HELP this Young Lady since the beginning of 9/21 at the time prior to her initiating her 4 months of residential treatment/care working the supposed “Gold Standard” as designated by the Mental Health Community, i.e. the ERP Process… If you look at matters now for her, she really is worse off Now than ever before as her Anxiety/OCD condition has resulted in Serious Depressive Issues as well which is the typical progression in ones Mental Health when one does not take care of their Anxiety/OCD Issues Properly… That was so readily predictable!! As the DM addresses I provided a quick Analysis of the ERP Process she went thru letting her (& all) Know how limited it really is vs. the Self-Personalized CBT Mental/Emotional Repetitive Training Process I LEARNED ( included in a provided Blog Posthttps://riseandshineanxietydepression.net/2021/10/27/ ) & Wrote of along with Additional Needs & Elements provided which forms a Total/Complete Process which solves our Anxiety/Depression Issues which forms the umbrella of Pain we all Feel & Deal with for Most MH Issues we are tagged with… What has been going on here for her, goes to show ya what really is Trending as far a Mental Health & Typical Treatment the MH Professionals are guiding us to in this day & age……For whose benefit we need to ask??!!! It’s Really SAD!!! For their $ desires or for the Good of the Patient Involved we wonder?…… “The 4th Edition–The Final Cut” Book written addresses what is going on in Mental Health considering my Numerous years of MH Related Experiences including having gone thru 4Xs in psych wards, out-patient care, & private sector pros, all I have witnessed, & my Objective view of matters which I summed up as “NUMBING” which it Really Is!… I wrote a Blog Post encapsulating that part of section 1. in the Book: That Post & Link is https://riseandshineanxietydepression.net/2019/09/05 … The bulleted items below briefly address the Sad Case of affairs which have resulted in a cluster…. whatever you want to call it & has led us to where we are now, with MH in this World, generally speaking, just getting Worse with No Change in sight…
A Key reason “stems from the only Biblical statement which I address in section 4: … i.e. “We can’t have two Masters, God and money… we are going to Love one and hate the other” … so which way is Society, or us humans taking us (as addressed in section 4.4)? Yeah, the Very Wrong Way!” YEP GREED as we have Generally selected the Wrong Master in our Lives, $s over GOD! So between the $s being made by the MH Pros & the Pharmaceuticals, the Approach of pointing to the Meds as the Predominant Approach to deal with MH Approaches for Therapy Will Never Change!
Of course this caters to the state of the Extent & Rates of SUFFERERS or those who Struggle who roll thru the Psych Wards/MH Hospitals these days, more now than ever before, as I did 4Xs thru as Sufferers are Desperately looking for Necessary/Immediate Treatment! Bottom Line, the only way the Pros can do a Quick turnaround of Patients is to bottom line, Medicate them, 100%! Understandable, looking for quick fixes but those quick fixes are NOT PERMANENT Means of Properly Dealing with our Issues which is Never brought up to the attention of SUFFERERS & where to seek such Permanent/Natural Solutions from in the psych wards/MH Hospitals I was resident in, 4Xs thru again, leaving us disillusioned about the Meds being the only way out, like a hampster in a cage on a spinning wheel, running like hell & getting nowhere with ZERO Proper Direction… Only the Meds Rout….RRRRRRR !!!… Instead of Numbing the Ways we think, operate, & react to things we NEED TO LEARN how to CHANGE the ways we Think, Operate, & React to things, Underreacting to Everything in Effect which is what it Takes to Amend our Issues Permanently! That’s what I Wrote of…
What stems from this, consistent with selection of the Wrong Master, is how the Education System was geared… Not Very Good at all as I’ve witnessed! Since the MH Pros Preach how they are Taught they cannot be held accountable for Problems/Complications dealing with those who SUFFER or Struggle regardless of the end result of their Diagnosis & Treatment Prescribed! There is no Secret about those running the show of the MH Professionals as they have to Know what is going on REALLY! With the $s being made the MH Profession Education System in schools/colleges will never CHANGE!
Additionally, how our Society & MH Pros Operate consistent with above, MH Pros are not Allowed to bring up One’s FAITH & Foundation as far of It’s Importance in our Mental Health… WOW !!??… To Think that is never brought up by the Psychologists/Psychiatrists/Therapists to Patients who are SUFFERING??!!, That Is SO WRONG as Our Faith/Our Foundation involves, as I state in the Book “at Least 50% of the Game of Life” for our Well-Being & Mental Health which is So Clear!!!
Also Key: As for Problems in being human, us humans do not like to work on ourselves!!!!! This is a Big Big Problem as most of us just try to figure matters out on our own. Besides there is so much convoluted info out there on MH that no one knows what to believe… People are SO CONFUSED!! As Most of us humans have little if any Experience concerning MH Issues & Matters when they initially reach out to find Mental Health Help in case of Need, & just like if we have a broken arm we go to the Drs./Pros we do the same when feeling the effects of MH Issues going on as we go down the path of the MH Professionals Understandably up front, & often if Desperate, we end up in the psych wards as I have to no avail really as my Book explains. In the case of the Young Lady addressed, she still is All About her Desire to Continue to Rely on the MH Pros Interestingly after All she has gone thru?! Yep definitely some brainwashing that goes on between the MH Pros & the general populace until we Really Experience Matters ourselves & then Realize, Definitely It Is Time To Change Course! But in What Way???!!!… That is Completely what I Wrote of!
Here is the DM as provided to the Young Lady:
Hi Young Lady, Sorry about the length of this, but For Very Good Reason! In light of a tweet/comment provided to your tweet on top of your site showing the OCD Debilitating poster on 2/14/22, I Urge you to read this for your benefit needless to say. Please Read it Twice… Yeah, I think you have been working thru that ERP Process for well over 2 months, & well past 6 weeks by now from what I understand as of 2/25/22. Unfortunately, I haven’t heard Significant signs of Improvement going on which I KNOW you would have shared on twitter if such was the case by now per the ERP Process! Other than showing a few pictures of yourself, being in a picture with a Friend, & your Mom, which is at least some level of Improvement, & Thanks God for that!.. I Pray for you Every Day in your endeavors to get better! But Honestly, compared to Book’s Process, if you Tried, ERP is not doing you Justice! Per Book’s Process, 4 weeks from start working the Repetitive Training/Reprogramming Process in section 5 of Book, we are then ready to get out there in public to work our Skills, after going thru the 1st Step Conditioning process, calming down our minds, & associated Tools/Actions, then getting to next Step Skills we learn upfront to deal with Panic issues (or compulsions in your case, prior to getting to the next section in 5), & then per the last step in section 5, Learning/Working Tools/Skills dealing with Conversions in thoughts from being negative/unreal, to Positives (which puts a slam dunk on all Panic issues). It’s not really scary at that time getting out in public & working New Skills/Tools, but instead is Challenging & Exciting when do , since, you’d be more Ready than ever before really out in public with the knowledge you’d have in place vs. in prior unprepared Suffering times, & besides, knowing you’re taking Great Strides to achieve your Ultimate Goal to be Truly Free in Life where this is leading you to :)! Yeah, you would have read thru the Book well before this time & would Realize this Positivity Process Does Make Total & Clear/Compete Sense….Thereafter, within 6 weeks of Working process, about 2 weeks into sect. 6, we begin to have Tremendous Positive Impacts starting to permeate thru us which is nothing short of Mind Blowing, Seriously!!!… e.g. the 3/3/20 Reviewer (on Amazon) who Suffered with “Anxiety, Depression, OCD, & PTSD his whole Life”, wrote his Review “Life Changing” just at the 5 week mark :)! & Now he is doing like I am…. Solid as he can be :)! As for me, being That Worse Caser for too many years, within 6 weeks This Happened (minus the Help from a Cheerleader as I am now) !… A Couple others I witnessed, as shared in Book, saw Amazing Results: within 2 ½ months, not knowing when they truly started into sections 5 & 6 & doing the Work?…. & also at the 5 week mark upon just getting the Book, for a young 17-18 yr old who was in panic when met him! Blog Post I wrote addressing the Tremendous Positive Impacts seen with Book in hand for All those I came across including those who provided Reviews & those who were working Process, minus Reviews…& for Son & I working the Program purchased Clarifying the Power of the Book’s Total Process by comparisons; this Blog post provided which also shared up front on All Book sites for the Book ishttps://riseandshineanxietydepression.net/2020/03/10. Per this comparison, the Book Process Appears to be equally as Strong vs. doing the Program I Learned from & Likely Stronger with additions made beyond what Learned… Then with section 4 matters addressed, it does Trump the Programs Process which does not include the Powers in FAITH, & Merging the Positivity Tools/Skills with Prayer etc. Go to the very 1st DM I provided you, & that DM includes that Blog Post & Link (now shown above)… Recently, on 10/27/21 I did a quick analysis which resulted in my reluctance of the ERP Process’s Effectiveness you decided to do vs. working the Optimum CBT Process I Learned & wrote of… Definitely Prompted by you & my Concerns of you being So Gung Ho & all, being commited to that ERP without even giving the Approach I wrote a thought or a Try… Blog post written addressing this evaluation of the differences between CBT Processes (the Positivity Process) I LEARNED, vs. other CBTs including ERP looked into, made it Clear the CBT I Learned is Optimum by comparison! Just being Honest!! Hence, the effectiveness of what it sounds like you are sensing/feeling, per the ERP Process which seems Very Limited & Lacking by comparison, vs. what the Book’s Process Effectiveness has Proven to be …”Life Changing” & “Life Savings” when a Sufferer Just TRIES! That CBT Evaluation Blog Post link is:_ riseandshineanxietydepression.net/2021/10/27…. Please give it a Read!… As for the $s spent one vs. other, considering $s spent & Effectiveness considerations, not even worth thinking of cause it would be alarming!… Even if I did not offer you a freebie ride here which I am offering, you’d have to pay max $s= E-Book in e.g. pdf format ($4.99), or Paperback ($19.99 max), + the Intended & Highly Recommended Relaxation Media which originally was a freebie YouTube link, but no more as owner of Media now (not the Lady X-Sufferer who generated the routine & who I Learned from) is charging $20ish (outside my Control needless to say)… Sooo $25 ish to $40 ish spent total, vs. residential ERP where you are going on month 3??!!! Can’t even imagine what they are charging!?… I personally spent with Insurance kicking in some $20K for MH, per probably 20 days in Residential care, & then out-patient care, & some private sector “Pros” back like 12 to 22 years ago as a snap-shot of $s back then.… & as stated I Learned Nothing of what it Takes Naturally, which provides Permanent Results which I was So Lucky to have come across, LEARNED & EXPERIENCED to Understand what it Definitely Takes in Life, For Life. Yeah, I provided a ton of info above in DMs, excluding some details about this evaluation post… Although, I did put this information & link, in various tweets to All starting 10/27/21 time frame as I was hoping you would read into it prior to doing your ERP Excursion which you were already committed to go thru. Yeah, I do Understand, being inexperienced with MH Issues & MH Reality, like most, you automatically gravitated to the PHDs & Drs. being a Sufferer with MH Issues & just like we do for other things when feeling Issues or Pains, we go see the Drs.… You’d think they should Know Best, Right? Sorry & Unfortunately, but So Wrong in the MH world as I’ve Fully Experienced. I generated a Blog post capturing words which exist in the Final Cut of the Book written, entitled NUMBING! Go to DM, my message generated Oct,15/21 & that includes that post if desire to read some… At least you were Smarter than myself & picked maybe a more viable CBT type approach which is a heck of a lot better approach than what I saw in my escapades with a gauntlet of MH pros & the meds… Hey, some times we have to go thru more disappointments until we find out what is Best to deal with our Issues… So, Yeah, DA me (you Guessed it :)) took 25 yrs to finally Realize what I needed to do to Begin my Recovery. Bottom line is, whatever is going on with you now, I would Love to talk to you about matters or if desired have your Mom call me if you desire at first… Sure I’d like to talk to her as well about… I don’t think you are at all near where you were hoping for to clear that OCD slate of Pain, & where I Know you should be & CAN BE (& DO) if You Just TRY!… I would Love to talk to Anyone on your behalf, but really most Importantly, to yourself to Help You #1! … By the way, I am currently Cheerleading to Motivate one of your followers… i.e. ( omitted for confidentiality reasons per this Blog post along with some details in doing cheerleading via phone contacts, emails, DMs)... She gave me permission to have you contact her & get a bead on many a communications we’ve had since 11/21… many a DMs, e-mails (providing her tid-bits) & phone calls I have had with her, for you to understand, e.g….how easy I am to talk to… how Helpful I have been for her in my strides to Motivate & Cheerlead I call it since Book after writing that over 7yrs, 4mos Is COMPLETE!!!, & to see if she thinks I am Trust worthy, which is a forgone conclusion my Friend, considering section 4 being about allow FAITH to Grow with age with GOD & Jesus being Christian :)… She already Knows How Much Sense the Total Process Makes as it does not take too long to understand that, as read into the Book………. As for you, I Know you would be Diligent about doing this #1 in Life so you can have a Life… A Beautiful Life!!!! & being Truly Free… Peace of mind when you have it all going within as it amounts to!!!… Since you have gone thru the wickets of doing what you are doing t/residential ERP, you would welcome doing the Book’s Process in your own home… My phone # again is 714-371-5435, e-mail RonnyLG123@gmail.com… My #1 Desire is again to HELP Someone, & You, 100%… Send me an e or DM me your e that way so I can get you all the Freebie Mat’l (Book & Relaxation mP4) you need to do this… Don’t think Anything could be BETTER as a TRUE Self-Helper… Not Possible, Not a Chance… So may I ask you WHY NOT & WHY NOT NOW?? Or when you get back home… Lets Do This!!!! I KNOW THIS IS THE MOST IMPORTANT EDUCATION IN A LIFETIME FOR MOST PEOPLE ACTUALLY, & FOR YOU WELL BEYOND THAT… With this Book in one hand & the BIBLE in the Other Needless to Say FREE yourself!!! Enough Said!!! I Know you are Very Smart… Please Take This in more than just a Consideration…. Lets Do This!!!